I'm participating in this week's Sepia Saturday, and just squeaked by under the prompt photo's theme, which is that of "families, festivities, trees, candles and wine." So I guess that keeps me from being a Sepia Scrooge.
I'd like to do a little tribute to my mother, who passed away five years ago today (December 20th) at the age of ninety-two.
For a
year or so, after she died, I'd do little pieces based on the fact of
her loss. The first Mother's Day without her, the first birthday she
wasn't here to celebrate with us, etc. Then I suggested to myself that I
should stop being so maudlin and attempt to get on with my life.
But
I thought that, for this five-year "anniversary" of sorts, my readers
would excuse me if I published one more little remembrance of the woman
who raised me.
My mother was born Anita Hartman on October 20th, 1917. And, as I've said before...
There were more technological advances during the span of my mother's life than I could list, even in a post of my usual entry's length...
My mom lived to see high-definition, flat-screen televisions. When she was born, radio hadn't even entered its golden age. Commercial air travel hadn't even gotten off the ground... errr... so to speak. And I could go on.
...but I won't.
I'm just going to share a few photos of my mother, spanning roughly 92 years.
The earliest existing photo of Anita
Hartman (center), at approximately age 3.
Mom's rather unusual haircut above was "designed" by my
Yearbook senior photo, 1935
Mom's autograph, from that same yearbook, a yearbook my mother never owned.
Mom and Dad on their wedding day, September 28th, 1940.
Mom and Grammy Josephine, mid-1950s. Photo taken by my young sister, Kathy, hence the upward angle.
And the above photo is one of my favorites of my mother!
Thanks for your time.
I love the photos. She was very pretty. It's been far more years since my parents died, and I still miss them.
ReplyDeleteLove,
Janie
Yeah, it's the kind of thing one never gets over, I suppose.
DeleteShe sure didn't look like a happy camper in the first one lol so many advancements happened in that time frame indeed, now all we really get is iphone version 6.6.8.9.7 or some crap.
ReplyDeleteMost of my mom's earliest photo featured her grimacing, most likely because the sun was in her eyes when they snapped the photo! Ha.
Delete"Earliest photos," that is!
DeleteYou have to think you have lovely memories of your Mom and this is beautiful!
ReplyDeleteI love her last picture when she is dancing!
The waiter she's dancing with asked my permission to dance with my mom first. I didn't even have a camera. Someone else took that great photo for me!
DeleteSo you have a beautiful picture to remember her:)
DeleteYep, lucky me!
DeleteWhat a lovely tribute for you dear Mother, and I really enjoyed your last photo as well, what a treasure it is to view today, and recall in your heart!
ReplyDeleteYeah, that's a terrific shot!
DeleteNice to see your mother move through her life -- good photos for us, good memories for you...
ReplyDeleteJust be glad I spared you the hundreds I have! Ha.
DeleteA wonderful tribute from a loving son.
ReplyDeleteWell, I tried...
DeleteVery nice!Good thing you have those pictures.
ReplyDeleteWe need to get together with my family photos sometime. It's not like we never see each other.
DeleteIt's been nearly 20 years since my mother died. I worry that I'm a bit maudlin too but I don't mind you sharing...I think it's rather lovely that she meant so much to you.
ReplyDeleteThank you.
DeleteWhat a beautiful lady, I love the photo taken c1943 and the last one of her dancing. It’s lovely to have such nice memories. My parents died a long time ago, but I still miss them and think of them all the time.
ReplyDeleteI doubt we ever get over such things.
DeleteA lovely tribute.
ReplyDeleteA very nice photo chronicle of your late mother's life. Merry Christmas!
ReplyDeleteThank you.
DeleteThere is no such thing as too many tributes to the most important woman in your life. Merry Christmas!
ReplyDeleteI agree.
DeleteA lovely testimonial for a lovely lady. :)
ReplyDeleteThank you!
Deletea fitting tribute to the lady who raised you....this time of year it is hard not to think about those that have passed on...and hopefully in what they gave us in the time that we were blessed to spend with them....
ReplyDeleteExactly!
DeleteMy mother died 15 years ago this evening here in the house. It has gotten better, but I try to make sure I'm not in the house at the exact time it happened. A night out to dinner and a drive around to see Christmas lights helps. It distracts me. So I understand completely. Christmas will never be the same and it took me years before I even wanted to drag out the decorations and pretend to be cheery. Time does help. Hang in there. Find what you can of Christmas memories and fill your heart with them.
ReplyDeleteThanks for sharing that. Hope your holidays go well this year.
DeleteA fine tribute, thank you. I lost my dad this fall and have thousands of his photos which will take time to arrange. Like your post, it is a labor of love I think.
ReplyDeleteBest wishes for a cheerful new year.
Yeah, I have hundreds of family photos...
DeleteA lovely tribute to your mother.
ReplyDeleteThanks you!
DeleteOne should never apologizes for doing what's right.
ReplyDeleteA beautiful tribute!!
Happy new year!!
:)
Thanks. Hope your 2015 kicks 2014's butt!
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