This is the 200th anniversary of Sepia Saturday! I've participated off and on during the past four years, and didn't want to miss being part of its special week. Therefore, in accordance with this week's guidelines, I'm reprinting my favorite Sepia Saturday post, from March 26th, 2011. This and most (if not all) of this week's other Sepia Saturday entries will be published in a book called -- appropriately enough -- The Best of Sepia Saturday.
(Be sure to check out other Sepia Saturday entries!)
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Every
parent, so they say, dreams that his or her child (or children) will
have a better life than the parent had. A better education, better
financial status, a better marriage (if that applies), etc.
There were more technological advances during the span of my mother's life than I could list, even in a post of my
usual entry's length. And say what you will about some of the downsides
of "progress," we certainly have it easier in many more ways than those
who lived in 1917, when my mother was born.
My
mom lived to see high-definition, flat-screen televisions. When she was
born, radio hadn't even entered its golden age. Commercial air travel
hadn't even gotten off the ground... errr... so to speak. And I could go on.
Even during my own
childhood, computers were enormous monstrosities that filled half a
room. Using one of those babies as a "laptop" would crush you to death.
Now, of course, we have "personal computers."
And we have eBay.
Thanks to eBay, I now own something my own mother never got to own (due to its expense), but should have: Her high school yearbook, from 1935!
Northern Lights
was the name of the yearbooks issued by North High School in Worcester,
Massachusetts (during the 1930s, anyway). I recently purchased one at a
relatively modest sum from an eBay dealer. The copy I own was
originally the property of Alice I. Maki, an attractive blonde whom I
can only assume is no longer with us... like my mom.
Upon
receiving it, I read the thing cover to cover before leaving the post
office lobby, looking for my mother's main yearbook entry, and any other
listings, photos, etc. of my mom's senior year. There weren't many. I'm
sure her chores at home kept her from being a social butterfly.
But I did expect at least one or two music-related activities, and I wasn't disappointed.
It didn't take me long to spot my mom's photo among the many students shown above.
It
would have been nice if I'd thought to look for this a few years ago,
when my mom was not only alive, but when her vision was still good
enough for her to appreciate such a find. At least I have the comfort of
knowing that it's not something I thought of and then
characteristically put off doing until it was too late. That would bother me.
Before
I even received my package, it occurred to me that, even if she had
never owned one herself, my mom might have autographed Alice's copy. And
I was right!
That
was a nice touch. Almost like a brief note from my mom to her son and
daughter, which "only" waited 75 years before we got to see it.
Gotta love eBay.
Thanks for your time.
What a wonderful entry. A magical, loving gift like that is so welcomed too, even if it was so many years later. It's just perfect, and a great presentation by you.
ReplyDeleteThank you!
ReplyDeleteI love this post! How wonderful to be able to look back on your mom in high school.
ReplyDeleteDee
Yeah, it is. :)
DeleteFunny how things sometimes just come to be in a roundabout way. 75 years in the making to get the note
ReplyDeleteYes. Kind of remarkable.
DeleteWhat such a nice and lovely post.wellyou always in sepia try the best:)
ReplyDeleteLove this like all sepia post!
Thank you.
DeleteI've read this before, David, but I enjoyed it just as much as the first time.
ReplyDeleteLove,
Janie
Glad you feel that way about the rerun.
DeleteThat must have been a spine-tingling discovery, to find her signature in the book. Good thinking!
ReplyDeleteNice to have such a treasure to remember her by. My mother has two editions of her old yearbook, but they are soft cover and falling to pieces.
That's a shame. I hate it when you can't adequately preserve something like that.
DeleteA lovely story and it just goes to prove life is full of surprise opportunities. Sometimes you have to look for them, and sometimes they simply pop up. Either way - voila la!
ReplyDeleteIndeed.
DeleteThis post was even good as left-overs. :) ha.
ReplyDeleteI found my college yearbook the other day...Nugget and eaten almost the whole cover off of it! :(
had eaten...had. :) ha.
DeleteGood as left-overs? Thanks. And it didn't even need your touch?
DeleteNo, but it needed my approval, if I recall correctly. :)
DeleteYour opinion is always valued, true.
Deletethat is pretty cool that you have her yearbook...that has to feel like a pretty cool connection...and how interesting to see your parent so young as well and get a glimpse into their life....
ReplyDeleteI agree with all of that.
DeleteWell Discovered & Well Reported!
ReplyDeleteI wasn't part of Sepia Saturday when you first shared this, so it was fun for me to read those contrasts about technology. Another contrast is simply the size of schools and circle of friends. So I'm not at all surprised to find your mother's signature in someone else's yearbook. Splendid purchase.
ReplyDeleteGood point (about the "size of schools and circle of friends").
ReplyDeleteSo cool that she's signed it! Amazing.
ReplyDeleteIsn't it?
DeleteA super story that shows magic CAN happen! The invention of eBay has been revolutionary for historians and family archivists. Photos, books, and ephemera like this would haven been impossible to find in the pre-internet era.
ReplyDeleteVery true.
DeleteSchool Year Books are not very common in the UK and definitely not in my parents time. Somehow school sports photos from my time could never match a find like yours.
ReplyDeleteThat's very interesting! I didn't know that.
DeleteSo glad for this 200th idea, I get to read some really great posts from before I joined in. Love it - what a great find - a treasure to pass on to future generations too.
ReplyDeleteIt certainly is.
DeleteWhat a great find, her yearbook. Lovely post for Sepia Saturday 200!
ReplyDeleteThanks.
DeleteA worthy entry for Sepia Saturday 200!
ReplyDeleteThank you.
DeleteA wonderful Ebay purchase, something I'd not ever considered. This is a great tribute to your mother too.
ReplyDeleteThanks a lot.
DeleteA lovely story, especially the bit about the signature.
ReplyDeleteYeah, that was the frosting on the cake, so to speak.
DeleteThe internet has changed the entire world. One would never believe that we could find such a thing as an old yearbook and then to have it be personally signed by your mother. That is the blog of the year story for me today. I could envision myself standing in my post office going through a book like that. Thanks for sharing this post.
ReplyDeleteRight. The internet has changed things very much!
DeleteI wish I knew what schools my parents attended. I'm not even sure of the year.
ReplyDeleteI wasn't sure of the exact year at first. I estimated it by adding 18 years to the year of my mom's birth -- 1917 -- and confirming that my mom was indeed in there by emailing the eBay dealer!
DeleteThis post tugged at my heart. So sad that your mother wasn't able to purchase a yearbook and then that you finally found one but too late for her to see it. At least we know she did see the original as her signature was in the copy. You must have been so happy to find that copy on Ebay.
ReplyDeleteGreat post.
Nancy
Ladies of the Grove
I was incredibly happy, yes!
DeleteWhat a wonderfully sweet gift from your mom, to find not only her photographs but also her signature.
ReplyDeleteMy sister and I both thought that was a nice touch.
DeleteThis is so sweet! What a wonderful son you are, and how clever of you to have searched out for a yearbook on E Bay. I love that your Mom signed this one, and that you spotted her in the large photo. This is a great choice for the upcoming book, because it brings the spirit of what Sepia Saturday is all about.
ReplyDelete(Oh, I'm not on Twitter, but thanks so much for the invite. I am on FB though.)
Kathy M.
Thanks for your comments! Not sure about the Twitter invite, though. I'm not on Twitter, so I didn't issue any such invitation. :)
ReplyDeleteI loved this post. I've got my mother's year book and I love looking at it. It helps to remember that our mother's were once real people and not just our mothers.
ReplyDeleteBarbara (Banar Designs)
"...real people and not just our mothers." Love that line. Glad you have your mom's yearbook, too!
ReplyDeleteThat is so amazing. It is like magic in some ways. Time brings change with it, some for the better some for the worse—as with all things.
ReplyDeleteMy mother sure lived through some interesting times!
ReplyDeleteFortunate that you could get your hands on a copy,
ReplyDeleteand one that bears her signature also. Bonus!!
Yep, loved that!
DeleteHow absolutely wonderful, Fox.
ReplyDeleteI fully agree!
ReplyDeletehey you...how have you been?
ReplyDeleteHi, Brian!
DeleteThis is going to sound like a bad joke. I've been doing fairly well, except for a mild heart attack one week before Thanksgiving. The heart attack has absolutely nothing to do with the fact that I haven't posted in almost four months. I've just been totally uninspired.
I wish I could promise that I'll be back to writing soon, but I need to summon up a little more ambition, it seems.
Thanks for asking!
I decided to come over and read your story. I think buying that yearbook was a bit like buying a ticket to time travel. You were able to get a glimpse of your mother through different eyes. I love stories like this and as a added bonus her signature. Very cool Silver. It’s like she was teaching out to you (chill bumps)Thank you for sharing the link.
ReplyDeleteI feel the same way about finding that signature 75 years later!
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